Do you feel sad and lost despite having everything? You feel that something is controlling your life, and your prayer does not help you. Keep in mind that you are responsible for this. Your ego destroys the happiness of your life even if you do good things. Here are some ways to make your life better, and I am sure applying these ways will help you get your happiness back:
1. Have Faith in Love
In today’s life, it is hard to love unconditionally. Love has almost become a business, and everyone has a purpose behind it. It has been restricted to spouses and family members. You start hating the person if they do something against you. Hate makes your life tougher. Therefore, love all and hate no one.
2. Be Constructive, But Not the Destroyer
Building anything takes time, but destroying the same happens fast. Suppose that you have a house. You want to make a new one after destroying the old one. You get the building destroyed in two to five days or even in a few hours, but you have to wait for a month or more to construct the new one. The same thing happens in a relationship. Therefore, keep moving over to make a relationship stronger and ignore the things that make it weaker.
3. Keep Smiling
All of us love small kids. Do you know why? It is as if small kids always have a smiling face. They are carefree, and it’s their parents who manage all the things for them. Learn something here. Keep smiling all the time, even if you have problems, and never let a frown come to your face.
4. Be Struggler
Keep in mind practice makes a man perfect. Never quit fighting the problems even if you fail to attain the target for the first time. Keep struggling and back it up with strong willpower and an eagerness to learn at every step. One day, you will have the one you are dreaming/you have dreamt.
5. Praise, But Do Not Curse
Everyone becomes happy after being praised. Praising someone makes you happier, boosts your morale, and leads you to perform well. Know the details and praise the person if they take smaller steps. Keep in mind that criticizing makes no difference, and hence, keep a distance from it.
6. Be a Healer But Not a Hurter
Do you wound people? Of course, that is not what most of you will say. Directly or indirectly, you wound people. You get irritated or angry when someone makes a mistake. You do it, as you think you are big and smart. The person whom you scold is low at that time, as it hurts them. Instead of hurting them, listen to them and try to know why they have made that mistake. Ask them for improvement and be a healer. It makes your life better.
7. Be a Giver
Do you think you have nothing to give? You are totally wrong. You have a smile, knowledge, excess stuff and words to give. Do you think it will be over? Of course not. Your kind words can make someone happy, sharing knowledge makes someone learn from you, and it will grow; excess stuff such as food can make you have fun & happy, and your smile can make someone’s day. Start sharing these things, and you will get the same in unexpected ways.
8. Make No Delay
Be active and make no delay. Start ignoring the thinking that you will be happy when you have this and that. Celebrate the moment even if you attain a small achievement. Celebration makes you happier and fills you with positive energy that encourages you to do better. Apart from celebrating for yourself, you should do it for others too. Act happiness daily.
9. Keep Praying, But Do Not Despair
Sometimes, prayers do wonder. There are two reasons behind this. The first one is that it is a positive act, and the second is the one that keeps you connected with your GOD. Whatever the religion you believe in, keep praying. Pray with full dedication when you are completely free, and never make prayer a duty. Praying with full concentration helps you have positive mental strength.
10. Be a Forgiver
I am upset, angry, and depressed at them, as they have done wrong with me, which is a very common statement these days. Some things would make you feel hurt, but it does not mean you should make it a very big issue. Forgive the person if they do something wrong with you. This will make your life better.
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